Be gentle with yourself when under stress

Be gentle with yourself when under stress

Grief brings a lot of change with it. Change in routines, support, schedules, relationships – and much more. And for those of you who are connected to the school system, that brings even more change in September as we adapt to another school year! Unfortunately,...
Taking small breaks to decompress

Taking small breaks to decompress

How often do you allow yourself to take breaks throughout the day? Many of us rush through our days without taking the time to slow down. Often, this has the impact of leaving us exhausted and frazzled by the end of the day. We feel rushed, anxious, and overwhelmed....
Planting seeds on your grief journey

Planting seeds on your grief journey

Summer is a time when the world is full of lush plants, flowers, and lots of green wherever you look. But just a few months ago, the world looked a lot less green. Perhaps you started your garden, have been tending to it for several months, and are now beginning to...
Let’s talk about sleep!

Let’s talk about sleep!

Let’s talk about sleep! As we all know, sleep is incredibly important to our well-being, but even in the best of times, it can be challenging for some of us to get enough sleep. And grief can sometimes make sleep even more challenging…but it also becomes even...
Self-care, in moderation

Self-care, in moderation

We at COJ often talk about ways to practice self-care for ourselves, but it might be time for a refresher on self-care. Self-care, at its most basic level, is the practice of caring for ourselves. However, when we talk about self-care, we aren’t talking about just...
Our need for community

Our need for community

Social relationships can be hard even in the best of times, but when grief and loss are involved, those relationships can seem even harder. The thought of being asked questions, people needing things from us, or even wearing presentable clothes can be exhausting...